It’s important to make sure you make your bridesmaids feel special on your wedding day! They have planned showers, a bachelorette party and have been there for moral support. Your bride tribe is constantly ensuring your day goes off without a hitch. You can say “thank you” a million times, but it’s still important to take time to think of thoughtful and personal gifts for your bridesmaids so they feel just as special as they have made you feel through the months of wedding planning.
There are huge details that go into planning a wedding; the venue, your theme or color scheme, the music, the flowers… the list goes on. With so much going into planning such an important life event, the groom tends to leave getting ready until the last minute. It’s true, he has a lot less to think about than a bride does, but it’s his day too, so we’ve come up with a short list to make preparing for the wedding a breeze for him.
Prepping your skin
Just like styling your hair, your skin and facial hair shouldn’t be an afterthought and shouldn’t be much of a change from what you normally do. Regularly washing and moisturizing your face is enough to get healthy skin and keep any spots at bay. However, if you have problem areas, feel free to see a dermatologist at least a month before the wedding, and they can give you professional guidance on how to handle your breakouts.
When it comes to styling your facial hair, stick with your usual style. You will feel most comfortable and confident when you feel most like yourself, and facial hair can be a defining characteristic. If you rock a beard, make sure it’s trimmed and styled neatly. There’s a ton of products on the market to help you achieve a perfectly groomed beard or mustache. If you want to go for a clean shaven look, ensure you’re using a new razor and quality shaving products. This way, you will get a soft face that’s free of nicks and bumps.
We at Shay Brown Events had the honor of hosting Shelly & Ryan’s Wedding at The Asheville Masonic Temple . This sweet couple was such a joy to assist in planning & designing their special day. Their vision was simple elegance and encompassed the entire Venue, spreading out on all 4 levels and creating special elements and areas for their guest to enjoy.
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Wedding Invitation Trends 2018
If you like most couples, you want your wedding to be unique, personal, and a memorable experience for your guests. The first glimpse of your wedding if your wedding invitations. You want to be sure to the tone, theme, and overall feel of your wedding from the moment your guests open their mailbox. Below are my choices for the top five wedding invitation trends 2018! I was also asked for my predictions in the International Wedding Trend Report. It is a fabulous resource for your upcoming wedding. The stationery trends are on pages 48 – 51 if you want to flip ahead like I did. It is free to download!
Watercolor wedding invitations take so many different styles. It can be a landscape of your childhood home, a sketch of your wedding venue, or light flowers. This invitation has the flowers from the bride’s bouquet and is worked into the invitation with the envelope liner and a pretty vellum belly band.
From the International Wedding Trend Report
Wedding Theme Trends
With all of my upcoming clients, they are trending away from a set theme per se. Where in years past, I’d see lots of “rustic barn with an elegant feel” or specific themes like “1920’s Great Gatsby”, couples are trending towards a feeling or overall look to the wedding. We’ll be seeing lots of Elegant and Opulant.
Laser Cut Acrylic Invitations
Laser invitations have been popular for a few years and I don’t see any stop to that. (You can see my top acrylic invitations here) The acrylic is taking a new shape and look this year. This invitation is layered with hi-shine metallic gold and then laser cut. The flowers in the design are directly from the bride’s wedding dress.
Hand Drawn Wedding Invitations
Unique and personal invitations go to another level with a hand-drawn invitation. Dawn and Kevin are self-proclaimed “geeks”. Inspired by a poster in their home, I suggested a drawing of the two of them looking up at the sky. When Dawn asked if their FIVE cats could be around them. My answer was, of course! Guests from their wedding raved and raved about the uniqueness of their invitations.
Velvet Wedding Invitation Trends
I started working with velvet a few years ago. (You can see those invitations here, here, and here). Now you see it all over the red carpet, in table linens, and ribbons. Adriann wanted the texture of the velvet with a flower pattern to match her wedding dress. Made as a panel style, there is a velvet pocket on the back for the inserts!
From the International Wedding Trend Report:
Colour Predictions for 2018 Stationery
Jewel tones, but in more muted tones. I’m seeing lots of lavender, dusty rose, slate blue, sage green. And of course, they are all still being paired with gold. I think that after years and years of only ivory and blush being the color accent to gold, we’re finally going to see some color coming back.
Laser Cut Invitations
Laser cut wedding invitations have been popular for years now. The designs are more intricate and more unique with each year. Jennifer and George’s wedding was at their family Greek Orthodox church. Their laser cut belly band is a design inspired by the curtains at the Fillmore Theatre with an Orthodox cross in the center.
Images credit: Rebecca Marie Photography
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With a New Year in full swing brings new colors and trends for the upcoming Wedding Season in 2018. After reviewing some of the top leading Wedding Professionals and print Magazines in the industries here are a few things we can expect to see for 2018.
Pantone colors of Ultra Violet and other various shades of purple is where this season is headed. The main color of ultra violet color can seem quite strong to many but, there are ways to incorporate such a powerful color into the season’s trend.
Leading Professionals are saying the organic greens and mixed greens will be taking a back seat this season. But, I think we haven’t lost it entirely. We can still see early in the spring and summer wedding a nice mix of softer dusty greens mixed with softer shades of floral working in the Ultra Violet pop of color. Mixing these softer shades of ivory/creams, various shades of pinks and lavenders will be on target for early season’s Trend.
As we head into the later Summer/Fall Season we can expect more deep rich vibrant mix of colors giving a more Regal elegant feel to our Ultra Violet Trend. Deep rich vibrant shades of magenta, eggplants are sure to be seen in the later season’s mix. Some are saying the Royal wedding is leading the trend for this seasons color Palette ~ So will they select Purple? We shall see…
With the trend in changing venues to unique Rooftops, Museums, Warehouses and other hidden finds. Professionals are telling us to expect more metals and woods in the mix of vessels with the floral mix and cleaner designs to this year’s trends. But, always keep in mind when working with the Ultra Violet colors in your venue, the darker the venue use lighter or strong vibrant contrasting colors to make your color of Ultra Violet pop and not blend into the venue.
Enjoy the Season’s Color and Congratulations to all of our Newly Engaged couples! ~ Bobby
Here is a little inspiration for the season:
Winter is often considered an off season for weddings. From unpredictable snowfall to setting a date during the holiday season, the qualities of winter that can make for a great wedding are often overlooked. Just because it might be cold outside, doesn’t mean your wedding can’t be warm and romantic. I believe you can make your winter wedding warm, cozy and inviting for guests using these three simple tips.
Winter Color Schemes
Incorporating the right color into your wedding is a great way to make your guests feel warm and welcome. The colors of your wedding can be used in the small details of floral arrangements, or even in more grand and obvious ways, like the wedding party attire. Navy and Marsala, for example, is a great color combination for a winter wedding. Marsala is warm and elegant, and using this color as the foundation of your bridesmaid dresses will make your bridesmaids stand out against snowy scenery in wedding photos. Let these marsala-toned dresses from Weddington Way inspire you! If you’re looking for a stylish tuxedo rental for your groomsmen, I recommend the color navy. Navy is just as timeless and classic as a black tuxedo and compliments Marsala effortlessly. The Black Tux is a top pick among groomsmen for finding quality tux rentals online in a variety of colors.
Equip your guests with mugs and surprise them with fun and delicious cocktails to warm them up. Mulled wine, irish coffees and hot toddy’s are crowd favorites when it comes to keeping your wedding fun and guests engaged. I recommend a hot chocolate bar for guests to make their own beverages as they mingle together. Be creative with candy and nut toppings and offer different liquors for guests to give their drinks a sweet and spiked twist.
Choosing the right venue is crucial for a winter wedding. The way your decor is displayed and flows together really depends on the venue that you choose. You can choose to keep the theme of your wedding rustic and charming by holding your wedding in a ski lodge tucked within the mountains. Or if you would like to keep things more elegant and sophisticated, hold your wedding at a polished and dignified stone castle. Cozy fireplaces and beautifully arranged wedding candle decor will set an ambiance to the venue’s atmosphere. Provide small seating areas for guests to gather for intimate conversation or choose a venue with large windows to admire the snow-covered scenery outside.
Winter can be one of the most beautiful seasons to get married in. Choosing the right colors, reception options, and venue are a few of the ways you can make your wedding warm and inviting. Use the season’s beautiful and unique traits to make your special day one of a kind. What would you do to bring a feeling of warmth to your winter wedding?
Check Back for more trends and insight next month… xoxo The SBE Team
The SBE Team would like to wish you all a very Happy Holiday! We look forward to working with you in the New Year and if you are newly engaged, let us know we would love to work with you in the 2018 and 2019.
Photo: Parker J Pfister Photography
Venue: Biltmore Consevatory
Venue: Biltmore Estate
Thank you to all the amazing Vendors throughout the Southeast that made this year one to remember and provided exceptional service! We look forward to creating The Southern Wedding Experience for you in 2018.
The SBE Team
From the eyes of Amy Wood – SBE Wedding Planner:
My little sister is getting married!!! As her sister, bridesmaid, and of course wedding planner, I wanted to share behind the scenes tips and insight of the journey.
First of all, when I started wedding planning many years ago, I thought of all of my clients as sisters. There are 5 of us girls, so older or younger, more traditional or bohemian, I had a sister that reminded me of most of my brides. It also was a way to keep focus in those unexpected (and at times overwhelming) moments. “If this were Lissa how would I help her? What would I do for Abby if this were happening?” Well now it is Abby and it’s so exciting to be able to give to her what I try to give to all of my bride-sisters!
Here are some of my favorite memories of SBE bride-sisters:
Recently all of us sisters met-up for dress-shopping. Now, having 4 older sisters boss you around could be some people’s nightmare (think “that doesn’t look good on your shoulders… nope not that one, go try on another… what’s his family going to think of that fit…”). Who can tell it to you as bluntly and with as much sincere love and happiness for you as your sisters?
Here we are with all the sisters
This brings me to my list of tips:
Tip #1 – When dress shopping or facing any decision in wedding planning (or life), know what you need from your team and select appropriate people. Abby’s top store was BHLDN and she had only an hour to try on too many dresses. This was also her first dress appointment and her selections were all over the place. It easily could have turned into her not getting through half of her dresses. Plus, there are only a handful of BHLDN stores in the country. If she could not decide on this trip, logistically it would have been difficult for her to get a BHLDN dress. What she needed from her team was help focusing on the cuts, color, fabrics, etc. And, did her team let her down? Not only did we get her through all her dresses, but we had 20 minutes to spare for her to go back and try on the top 3 and really give them the time they deserved.
Tip #2 – Know when to walk away. After all the twirling, hair up and down, mock bustling, and holding it next to bridesmaid’s colors, it was time to go. We left, got food, got lost, and made it home. On the drive we dissected each facet of the dress, sisters campaigned and changed camps, and Abby was given assignments (put images of you in each dress all over your bathroom, visualize yourself walking down the aisle and Nace seeing you, send pictures to a few family and friends etc.). She still didn’t know and we went on with our lives. Sometimes you need to make decisions before you’re totally ready, but sometimes you have the luxury of time and settling into what feels right.
Final Tip #3 – Know what matters to you. In the conversations a couple of deciding points came out. One dress’s favorite feature was the stunning lace back. Given the time of year and location, during most of the reception Abby likely will have a stole covering the lace. She didn’t want that dress if the back was covered. Another top-contender was gorgeous, but felt more appropriate to a church ceremony and formal reception, not the ranch wedding she’s creating. And then one dress had a cut that she loved but her fiancé didn’t. This got side-tracked in a sisterly debate as to if his opinion of the dress mattered. For Abby it did, after all she didn’t want him wearing something she didn’t totally love.
At a certain point she knew the dress that was right for her, for her sweetie, for the location, and for what she wants to create and experience on wedding day. The decision was reinforced when we were at the ranch. She could picture herself there on wedding day and deciding hair styles, and selecting jewelry. I’m most happy that Abby has a dress she is so happy with and that she kept the process fun. Wedding planning is full of big and small choices and with the right support and mindset it can be a really exciting process.
I can’t show you pictures of Abby’s dress yet, but here are a few more of my favorites from past SBE bride-sisters.
We look forward to helping you plan your wedding and keeping it all stress free, fun and exciting. Contact us today for more information.
It is all in the setting and here at Shay Brown Events we love creating a design and vision for your wedding day that will be remembered for a lifetime!